filter candidates in pick probe for diagnostics
Fixes#103411, though also fine with closing this PR if my opinion (https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/issues/103411#issuecomment-1287900069) is shared that this doesn't need to be fixed.
```
~/rust3$ time rustc +nightly ~/test.rs 2>/dev/null
real 0m4.853s
user 0m4.837s
sys 0m0.016s
~/rust3$ time rustc +rust3 ~/test.rs 2>/dev/null
real 0m0.193s
user 0m0.169s
sys 0m0.024s
```
Also fixes#103427.
Guillaume Gomez
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